A couple of weeks ago I wrote a blog post about my lack of female friends. I talked about how I struggle to make long-lasting friendships with women as I have a hard time relating to them. I not only wrote about in here, but I spoke about it on my IG stories.
Immediately after putting myself out there I received the sweetest message from a woman who also struggled with the same things. She had just moved to my town a little under a year ago and she was struggling to find friends in the area. She gave me her number and we hit it off right away. We went for coffee the following week, and tomorrow we are having a girls night out at the movies.
It is truly amazing what putting yourself out there can do!
As soon as I started thinking about our blossoming friendship, I began thinking back to this time last year. This time last year I was at an all-time low. I was struggling to figure myself out, and because of that I let go of one of my dearest university friendships. We were both going in very different directions in our lives, and it felt like there was a lot of judgement between us, so I cut it off. Looking back, I could have definitely done it in a nicer way, and I regretted how I ended it. Then I got a text from her! She had seen one of our other mutual friends at school, and she thought of me so she sent me text. Because she reached out to me I was able to heal the wounds between us and apologize for how I ended it.
The Universe could tell I was ready to apologize.
Recently I have been diving into ‘The Judgement Detox” by Gabrielle Bernstein, a book I have not picked up in a year. It has helped me to heal the wounds around my past friendships, and because of that I told the Universe I was ready to grow. The Universe sent me a test, and when I passed it sent me another. I am so happy that I listened to my intuition when it told me I needed to dive back into healing my judgements.
Is your intuition telling you to do something, but you have been ignoring it because it is too scary? Well here is the sign you have been looking for!! Go now and listen to your intuition, it is the Universe telling you that you are ready to heal!